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I’ve had my fair share of girl-girl-guy threesomes. I’ve had the guy-guy-girl too but that’s not nearly as much fun. This article will explain the two best ways to get a girl-girl-guy threesome. I’ve only managed to get threesomes in 2 very distinct ways. In order to be successful at both methods you need to have a high level of experience. This is not something that will happen overnight but, if you work it correctly you’ll be shocked at the results.

Number 1 – Introducing the girls to each other:

This is a simple process but it’s fairly difficult to pull off.

Step 1 – You first need to think about 2 women you’d like to do this with. It’s vital that you’ve slept with both of them, it gets a lot more difficult if one of them hasn’t seen you naked. Ideally, you should have slept with both for quite some time, enough time to make them very comfortable around you. You don’t want your frigid ex, you want 2 girls that are open-minded, liberal and who are also bi-curios or sexually adventurous.

Step 2 – When you’re alone with them, bring up the topic of bisexuality, a good time to do this would be in bed before or after sex. If she seems keen on the idea bring up the topic as a “thought experiment”. Make it seem very positive and if she seems somewhat into it, try talking about it during sex (part of your dirty talk). What I’ve noticed over the years is that many women have some sort of bisexuality towards other women however; most of them aren’t up for the task. Some of the women I’ve been with are open to the idea but are not comfortable with it. If that’s the same in your case, your number one priority would be to make her comfortable with the idea.

Step 3 – Ok, so by now, you should have both women comfortable with the idea. Let a few weeks slide and bring it up again mentioning, “You know, I know this really hot girl…She’s bi (or just into it) and I’m sure she’d wanna do something like that”. They don’t mind if you slept with the other one, actually in some cases it helped (it was somewhat like an acknowledgement). If both girls seem into it, giving it a try wouldn’t take much effort.

Step 4 – Plan a meeting. Tell both the exact same things (that you might be meeting the other one tonight and ask if she minds to meet her as well). Don’t make plans or anything as that will only freak them out.

Step 5 – Set up a meeting, you don’t need me to tell you how to pick a place and all that… Make it all seem spontaneous, I know you mentioned it to them…but just make it feel like that.

Step 6 – As soon as you get there you’ll know instantly if it’s on or not. The girls will decide this on the spot. If it’s working, you can tell by the way they talk, act nervous slightly tense etc. If it’s not, YES you’ve lost weeks of planning…but it was just a shot…always remember that you were having sex with 2 women for the past months and, you just tried to DO them together. Trust me; I had things blown up in my face countless times.

Step 7 – Get some alcohol flowing, the more the better.

Step 8 – Ideally you want to take them to your place, be careful with the invitation as not to freak one out…they should both be comfortable with your house…so just try to get them there.

Step 9 – At the house, start making out with one, then move onto the other, then get them involved. If this is happening and everyone is at your house, you’re pretty much set.

It’s worth mentioning that some of them (well quite a few of them) do freak out at this point. If that hasn’t’ happened, its definitely on!

Number 2 – Using your BI girlfriend:

Ok so a few years ago I had this bisexual girlfriend. She was hot and even better she was HOT for girls. Now even though she’s bisexual, it doesn’t mean she was bringing girls home for me to have sex with, being bisexual just means that she has sex with girls – she can have either a girlfriend or a boyfriend. When she was with me, it was my job to make her want other girls and to make her be ok about bringing other girls in bed with us.

In any case, if you ever manage to secure a bisexual girlfriend here’s how you play the game.

To get things straight here, I know you’re a guy and have game, but when it comes to picking up the other girl, your BI girlfriend should be doing all the work. She will own it much better than you and here’s why:

She very rarely get’s rejected, if ever…

She can identify bi-curios girls instantly. A big mistake I was always making was to work girls for 30 mins only to discover that they weren’t into other girls. Let your girl open it, she’s going to be good at spotting this.

The only exception here is with groups. Hardly any girl acts like we do – open up a group of girls and picks one etc. That’s when you come in, get a girl, isolate her from the group and then get your BI girlfriend to step in.

Most girlfriends love doing things together, this includes “picking-up together” but when you tell them, “ok go open up that group and pick that blonde over there”, they just get nervous and want to stay the night with you.

Anyway the reason you still want her to open is because she knows instantly if the other girl is up for it. Regardless of how good your game is, when you ask a girl for a threesome she will always question your motives. She’s just less likely to believe you. A few times I still managed to get the 2^nd girl all by myself (at least 1 hour of work, compared to 10 mins by my girlfriend) and in this scenario, apart from my gf being upset that she’s been sitting alone for the last hour, she would also think that the other one just wanted to have sex with me and, not with US.

Always remember, threesomes are all about the girls. You’re just along for the ride.

So she does the pick-up, she brings her to you and, you start to flirt and generally get to know each other. By this time YOUR Bi-girlfriend should make the proposition of coming home with you. Now…it’s here where most of them realize that this is actually for real and freak out. In my experience about half of them do that, they either leave straight up or are flattered but can’t actually do it.

If you’re lucky and she agrees, it’s up to you to sort everything.  Get them drinks, keep them feeling good and entertained, flirt with both, be sexual with both etc.

This is when they start to gang up on you. They all do it, all the time. They tease you; make fun of you etc…let it happen. I usually just sit there thinking to myself “Blabla in about an hour I’m going to have sex with both of you haha!” All they said and teased didn’t really matter. I do have to admit, it might feel uncomfortable sometimes but deal with it, you’re a man right?

Either you or your girlfriend can initiate the kiss. Initially I always let my gf to do it but as we did it more I tried it myself and it worked just as good.

Now it’s time to take them home, like always once home let them get comfortable, more drinks, some music and let loose. They can still freak out at this point but, most of them, if they got this far, will let it happen.

Final note – make sure you and your girlfriend clarify things. Make sure you let her go down on the other girl or the other way around. Also clarify that you can do your business with the other girl. I know some guys who had threesomes and only had sex with their girlfriends…what’s the point of that? Whatever you do make sure you get some action!

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out.  If you want to increase your success with women visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the “dating” mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct (and fruitful) methods of meeting and seducing women.

This was a guest post by Alex Matlock, an expert in “dating” and woman psychology.

A full look at the Sebago Spring/Summer 2012 Collection, which includes a full line-up of centered around some classic models like the Dockside, the Beacon boot, the wing-tipped Brattle, and the loafer as well as a new model, the Spinnaker. The Dockside will be available in a range of colors. The complete series of Sebago by Ronnie Fieg is handmade and is already in stock at KITH stores and online.

Seriously, awesome stuff.  Bikinis and stop-motion. via Kaloopy.

If your fear of getting fat or having a heart attack at 45 just aren’t getting you out the door and running, Zombies might.

Run For Your Lives is a 5K race in which participants must traverse obstacle courses and avoid hordes of zombies.  There are 11 races coming up this year in locations around the country—check the event website for details.

Nick Offerman is a true Cubs fan.  Part 1 if you missed it.

I’d let you shave everything

The ride:

2012 Audi A3 2.0 TDI

Walkaround:

The Audi A3 blends the styling of a hatchback with the elongated look of a wagon without looking awkward and while retaining the sporty look you expect in an Audi.  Classic Audi styling holds true with the A3, you get a mean front grill, menacing headlights and a sporty low stance.  You’ll also find that Audi touted this car’s diesel engine by plastering it with stickers, thankfully they’re not over the top.

There is, however, no denying that the A3 is starting to show its age a bit on the outside, and a successor is planned for 2013.

Interior:

The interior of the A3 is a very nice place to find ones self.  The A3′s comfortable and well-bolstered front seats sit us six-footers with ease.  The rear seats, however, do not.  The interior is well-finished with chrome-trimmed air-conditioner vents, well placed buttons and controls and thick, robust leather.  Compared to the competition at this price range the Audi A3′s interior looks far more upscale.

If you have the extra cash you can also opt for some of the same wood inlays, chrome trims and decorating available in the A3′s bigger siblings.

The A3 hasn’t kept up with the latest cabin technology from Audi, with their DVD-based navigation system.  The navigation system’s route guidance graphics look fantastic, unfortunately the functionality is quite basic.  An auxiliary display in the instrument cluster also shows turn information which is helpful.

Although I didn’t care for the navigation system, I did find the the car’s stereo and Bluetooth phone system were both very good. The system paired easily with my iPhone and quickly downloaded my contact list. The system shows recent incoming and outgoing calls, making it easy to call frequently used numbers.

You’ll find a proprietary port in the glove box with cables for iPod, USB, Mini-USB, and 1/8th inch auxiliary input. Again our paired iPhone allowed me to play my music perfectly.

Unfortunately, the A3 doesn’t have a blind-spot-detection system or adaptive cruise control.  The car does, however, come with rain sensing windshield wipers a nice feature for Colorado’s constantly varying spring weather.

The Drive:

The A3 TDI may look no different than its gasoline-powered A3 counterpart, but as soon as you fire up the engine you will notice a difference. The A3 TDI’s turbocharged 2-liter four-cylinder-diesel engine sounds like a diesel with a slight rattle at idle and if you get out of the car you will notice a light sulfur smell in the air.

The only gearbox available in the A3 is Audi’s six-speed, dual-clutch, automated-manual transmission — better know as S-tronic.

What’s the first thing I do when I review a car?  Stomp on the gas, of course to see what happens.  Not much it turns out, the combination of turbo and diesel lag make the Audi A3 very slow off the line.  At some stoplights I had a moment of panic waiting to see if the car would get underway.  Once it is underway, thing change drastically.  Those first tentative steps develop into a – throw you into the back of your seat – gallop.

The Audi’s dual-clutch transmission can have a hard time finding a comfortable fit. Because the redline is so low in the car it needs to shift gears much more frequently than with a gasoline engine. From time-to-time while driving in stop-and-go urban environments the transmission would downshift abruptly causing a sudden jolt.

In manual mode shifting can be somewhat difficult as you’ll find yourself clamoring to make shifts in time due to the low redline.  I found mountain roads much more fun and comfortable in Sport mode rather than manual.  The car always had plenty of boost for passing and merging.

The car handles incredibly well for being a hatchback-wagon and the handling and S-tronic work well together to offer up a sporty yet comfortable ride.

The “real” reason most people will be attracted to the A3 TDI is the fuel economy, and the car doesn’t disappoint.  In city I averaged 32 mpg and on the highway I got about 43 mpg.  My average for the week was 38.5 mpg.

The Competition:

Lexus CT 200h and BMW 128i both of which will see you spending a lot more time at the pump.

Bragging Rights:

The Audi A3 TDI is a sporty, turbo-charged diesel that’ll allow you to have fun while doing your part to save the planet all while still having plenty of room for the groceries.

The Price:

The Audi A3 TDI checks in at $30,250. Our car came in at $38,05 with the addition of the navigation system, sport package, premium package, premium paint, aluminum roof rails and the winter weather package.

Windup:

Diesel driving takes some getting used to, but the 2012 Audi A3 TDI’s outstanding fuel economy makes the learning curve well worth it.  The A3′s cabin and tech provides modern conveniences, comfort and longevity well above the competition.

The Photos:

Our favorite flash sale site Huckberry just launched a sale partnered with 20×200 to offer nearly 50% off 20×200’s awesome and already affordable art. Huckberry’s selling vouchers for 20×200 at a steep discount you can get a $60 voucher for $32, a $115 voucher for $69, and a $185 voucher for $95.

You can use your voucher to pick up some seriously handsome wall art, check out some cool examples below:

Looking to hit the beach with some Fast Times at Ridgemont High type swag?  Look no further, as Warriors of Radness just dropped off the third delivery of their Spring 2012 offerings.  T-shirts, tanks, shorts and trunks all dressed in bold colors and ready to hit the surf.  Made entirely in the USA and available through stockists including Reserve Online. Video and Lookbook below:

Look at the legs on Anja Rubik.  Gallery below:

Kixbox – Russia’s official distributor of Penfield, Stussy, Gourmet, Fred Perry and many more great labels celebrates the ever warming weather with their 2012 Spring/Summer Lookbook.

Check out the looks below:

Tivolo Spherical Ice Molds ($15) make it easy to form 2.5″ sphere-shaped ice, which is good as they have less surface area compared to the regular ice cubes so they melt slower and water down your drink less. Perfect for those of us who actually enjoy the the taste full flavor and aroma of our drinks. Come in a set of 2. via BlessThisStuff

Fred Perry’s collection celebrating the sport of cycling with its Blank Canvas Spring/Summer 2012 Cycling capsule collection. The collection is released under the label’s premium Laurel Wreath imprint. The goods include jerseys constructed from 100% cotton pique and shorts, plus a shiny nylon windbreaker and perforated sneakers in white or black. The collection is expected to land at end clothing in June. Lookbook below.

Audi’s been busy with their brand new Q3 model. At the 2012 Detroit Auto Show, they showed off a Q3 Vail Concept followed by a RS Q3 Concept at April’s Auto China 2012.  The fun continues as at the 2012 Worthersee show, Audi will be unveiling their new Q3 Red Track – a version of the compact crossover that focuses on drivers looking for more sport appeal. Changes include LED daytime running lights and 2.5 liter five-cylinder turbocharged engine, good for 335 HP. The car uses Audi’s seven-speed S tronic transmission which allows the vehicle to accelerate from 0 to 100 km/h in 5.4 seconds.

Audi will also be revealing their e-bike concept. The E-bike features a 48 volt lithium-ion battery that powers its 3 HP electric motor. The bike can accelerate up to 50 mph with a  40-50 mile range after a 2.5 hour charge.  Also includes a ‘wheelie’ function.

via WorldCarFans

Candice Swanepoel sporting some fine bikinis.